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If there is a believer who your son trusts and perhaps even enjoys being around, then that believer has a platform to tell your son—in a way he may actually pay attention to—that he’s being an idiot.This may sound harsh, but it’s a news flash we all need from time to time, and people we trust are usually the only ones who can package a painful rebuke so that it is a gift to us. Honor your wayward child in the same way you’d honor any other unbeliever.If your daughter smells like weed or an ashtray, spray her jacket with Febreze and change the sheets when she leaves, but let her come home. She needs to see how you are going to react to her evil.If you find out she’s pregnant, then buy her folic acid, take her to her twenty-week ultrasound, protect her from Planned Parenthood, and by all means let her come home. What really concerns you is that your child is destroying herself, not that she’s breaking rules. She probably knows—especially if she was raised as a Christian—that what she’s doing is wrong. Your gentle forbearance and sorrowful hope will show her that you really do trust Jesus. Parents ought to stand kindly and firmly, always living in the hope that they want their child to return to. Connect them to believers who have better access to them.The best thing you can do for them—and the only reason to do any of the following suggestions—is to show them Christ. Only God can save your son or daughter, so keep on asking that he will display himself to them in a way they can’t resist worshipping him for. For every unbelieving child, the details will be different. You know that he has forsaken the faith, so don’t expect him to live by the standards you raised him with.It is not a simple or immediate process, but the sins in their life that distress you and destroy them will only begin to fade away when they see Jesus more like he actually is. Each one will require parents to reach out in unique ways. For example, you might be tempted to say, “I know you’re struggling with believing in Jesus, but can’t you at least admit that getting wasted every day is sin?
You went to her school plays and soccer games when she was ten; what can you do now that she’s twenty to show that you still really care about her interests? No strategy for reaching your son or daughter will have any lasting effect if the underlying goal isn’t to help them know Jesus. It’s not so that they will be good kids again; it’s not so that they’ll get their hair cut and start taking showers; it’s not so that they’ll like classical music instead of deathcore; it’s not so that you can stop being embarrassed at your weekly Bible study; it’s not so that they’ll vote conservative again by the next election; it’s not even so that you can sleep at night, knowing they’re not going to hell.
If I had refused to include him, or anyone like him, he would never have had exposure to Jesus as his family is from Iran. I'm praying for every parent and child that struggles with addiction. How do you get through to someone who had the world on her plate, and now has nothing, how raise a kid,. Though u may not feel it or see it...declaring gods promises for you children.. Lord I pray that you restore this child to her famly. Although we are going to make our mistakes, God expects that, we have to go through some things in order for us to get on the right path with God.
I three addicts in my car following the funeral for their friend and you can be sure I shared the Gospel with them. Please pray for my children Brandon, Kevin, and Jeremy that God draw them come to confession of all their sins against Him and that they'll know the truths about God. As this mother cries out to you lord.will supernaturally make a way and bring her back home and get her on the path of god given destiny. However, with God's unconditional love for us, He sent his son as a sacrifice for our sins so we can be forgiven and have eternal life in Him. We have choices to make and your daughter knows what is right and wrong. 1 Peter 1:7 says, "These trials will show that your faith is genuine.
For parents who are currently struggling with a child (of any age) who has either strayed from their Christian faith or never professed Jesus as Lord of their life, this will serve as practical guidance to help you manage what is a very difficult reality. If you do, I’d like to know what you’re currently struggling with and how you’re managing.
I’d also like to remind you that our counselors are available to help you through these tough times.If your son is broke because he spent all the money you lent him on loose women and ritzy liquor, then forgive his debt as you’ve been forgiven, don’t give him any more money, and let him come home. There are two kinds of access that you may not have to your child: geographical and relational.